Commitment is the promises made to each other about what you want to do in your relationship. The need to do something for each other. It's a must. YOU ARE OBLIGED TO DO SOMETHING FOR YOUR PARTNER. For example ;1. When her car broke down , you are the one who have to come and help her.
2. When she needs something , you are expected to give her whatever she wants.
3. You have to meet her every week. Take her to dinner. Bring her lunch.
4. You have to text or call her everyday or every night to catch things up.
5. Protect her from uninvited harm because you feel that you have the responsibility.
What you have now is NOT even a commitment. She never ask you to do things for her. She never ask you to marry her. She never ask you to provide some money for her study.Texting every now and then is NOT a commitment. Calling every now and then is NOT a commitment. She never ask you to meet her every week. Does asking when are you free and meet you after can be considered as a commitment for you to meet her?
LOVE is a pleasure feeling. The willingness to share a part of your life with another person , another soul. You can talk to her about anything. The feelings that you don't have the guts to tell your friends, you can always talk to her. The person to whom you share your happiness with. Share whatever that makes you feel sad. Tell her what makes you feel sorrow even though she might not be able to help but at least you will feel a bit calm. Is that a commitment? Meet her when you miss her. Is that a commitment?
Ask yourself again what is your commitment towards her? or my knowledge about this particular subject is very shallow?
But the most important thing is to ask yourself , DO YOU LOVE HER? If yes , why does this commitment thingy arose? It should not be a problem. If no , Okay i'll ask her to leave you. There's nothing she can do aite? So i'm gonna leave you thinking this through. Scrutinize whatever that made you think this is a commitment. If it is even a commitment.
Till then , bye2..
4 comments:
huh?? comitment.. its not only that.. comitment is a big scope.. comitment to take a good care of someone feelings.. comitment to make sure that someone happy with u.. comitment, comitment comitment.. anyway.. the 1st comitmnet that someone should give a focus is their FUTURE~~
okay, but what if the person is really happy to be with you?
jage perasaan , buat dye happy sume tu dtg sendiri lah when you love each other. Tak kan terfikir punye bnde2 ni boleh jadi issue.
yeah give as much commitment to your FUTURE. tak salah pon. lain lah klu your partner halang bising memekak tak kasi you buat ape yg you suke.
btol tak? =)
boleh tak aku nak gelak je ?
HAHAHAHA .
jgn nak gelak sgt laa.. aku tggu post kau.
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